SUNNUP SLOWDOWNS
with SHERIE MUIJS
VOLUME 02.
Sunnup Slowdowns is a series exploring what it means to prioritise connection, to relish in gathering, to seek out beauty and to inspire rest & leisure. We seek to find how each of these inspiring friends make the most of moments in our fast paced world.
Words & Images
Yasmine Ganley
Sherie and I have been neighbours, living five doors down from each other for around 8 years. There have been many happy-hours, dinners on each other’s decks, and bike rides shared. Our children have grown up together, and at the same time, we, as mothers, have grown together too. These connections are the things that anchor us to our home, and make day to day life all the more special.
As the days are starting to lengthen, I visited Sherie and her boys in their garden, and photographed them as they enjoyed the last of the sun with a bowl of chippies and (Sherie with) a G&T. It was an hour, or so, that really felt like it marked the beginning of spring...
To start, can you introduce yourself and your family?
Hi, I’m Sherie, mother of three boys, Nischal (8), Nico (5) and Asher (3). My husband, Jiwan, and I got together in our early 20s and will be celebrating our 16th wedding anniversary this year. We bought our little home in Titirangi when we had our first son in a front pack after discovering this street when visiting a friend.
Your street has a lovely community feel to it, can you tell us about the ways in which you interact with your neighbours?
We live on a cul-de-sac, so you know almost everyone who passes by. The street bends and narrows, which means you need to slow down, pull over and give way with a wave. There’s a rhythm to our days, we find those who we’re in sync with as we come and go, finding comfort in the feeling we’re all in this together.
Your garden is beautiful! Can you tell us about how you and your family enjoy this space?
We feel very fortunate to have a classic quarter acre section. While our home is small, we’re able to spill out into our garden which is slowly evolving, creating spaces for the boys to play. I love that they can roll down the hill while I potter. Gardening requires time, which I come in and out of finding, so I just chip away at it when I can. My oldest son loves to play shops, so even when very new to the street, we’d set up stalls at the front of our home - homemade lemonade, feijoa jams and kasundi, grape juice -ingredients used from our back garden. Even though there’s less time to facilitate such things these days, I still enjoy being able to harvest and share.
What are some of your family's favourite one-day adventures?
Any of the west coast beaches! We went to Muriwai last weekend, but we also love to meander along the rocks during low tide out at Piha and Bethells for flying kites and the sand dunes.
As a designer, how does living in this area inspire you?
I’m most inspired when I have space. In this current chapter I am in, with young kids, being home alone for me is still a novelty. On these days, I love that I can open the French doors, let the light pour in and fill our home. Suddenly thoughts become clear and ideas tend to flow. These ideas may eventually transpire, but I’m learning to be patient and embrace a slower pace.
What are your must-pack essentials for a family getaway?
If we have a ball, wet-weather gear (togs and/or raincoats) and a change of clothes, we’re basically sorted. The boys are their best when outdoors.
Sunnup is all about slowing down, what are some ways in which you practice slow living?
I was sitting down, chatting to my husband the other night and he said “we need to do less, it will allow us to do more”. So, as we arrive in September, we find ourselves longing to spring clean our lives a little. To unwind I’ve started stretching in the evenings with Jiwan, lights dimmed. We then read through a few pages of whatever is next to our bed before turning the lights out. In the mornings I’m usually woken by three pairs of cold feet, so we snuggle on the couch for half an hour before launching into the day. The husband has left already but (thanks to him) hot coffee awaits.
What are you currently reading / listening to / watching?
Reading;
Hold On To Your Kids by Dr Gordon Neufeld and Gabor Maté
The Baby On The Fire Escape by Julie Phillips
Listening to;
Tinariwen, Tiwàyyen
Watching;
Yellowstone
Sherie Muijs is a designer and mother, living in Titirangi.
@sheriemuijs
sheriemuijs.com